When I was chatting away with the Pilot, he kept asking me what is my type. I kept telling him I don't really have one. Physically this is true. My husband is 6'4" tall. More than a foot taller than me. I love a big, tall guy to overpower me but it is not a requirement that he be tall, just taller than me. (by the way...if a man lists 5'8" on his profile, expect anywhere from 5'0 to 5'5") I almost always prefer men between 40 and 50 years old even though I am in my 30s. However my current friend is younger than me. My last three friends have been from Morroco and India, so country of origin is not a deciding factor either.
So if it isn't a physical type what is it??? I am an educated woman. I earned my graduate degree and I do not reveal that to brag, just to let guys know that when I receive a note on AM or by email that says "so, wanna fuck?" I can feel my vagina close shop. Seriously guys, I am risking a lot to talk to you. I have a good marriage and great family and friends. If I am going to take the risk and open up to you about my deepest desires and beg you to fulfill them, then the least you can do is write a proper note to me. Something like this....the hottest message ever!
Riff's message would work for me on several levels. First of all, he is articulate and uses complete sentences with proper grammar. That alone gets me wet. (see, I'm pretty easy!) Secondly, he is cocky. Not in a "douche bag asshole" way but by telling Linda that he thinks she is cute enough to fuck and not be a total waste of time is kind of flattering. Think about it, he is telling her that he is hot enough to be picky about his partners and she makes the cut. I would be curious enough to want to meet him and judge for myself. Of course the sex chat is just steamy enough without going into creep territory or becoming a cheese fest.
My current friend, although a bit younger, has proven worthy of my attention because he writes to me in a similar style. I am not as hard core as Linda, but I am willing to try a few things with the right person. See guys, my standards aren't too high and I am not difficult to please. You are asking a woman to enter into a relationship of sorts built upon lies, deception, and secrecy yet we have to trust you. Crazy right? The best way to earn that trust with me is to take a moment, write a proper greeting, and let me know you are interested. I can overlook height, weight, and physical appearance if I am already turned on by your words...for a evening anyway.
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